Honoring Fathers: A Father’s Day Reflection
By Arthur S. Kallow
Father’s Day is a time to pause, reflect, and celebrate the men who have shaped our lives in ways both big and small.
As an attorney, and advocate for fathers’ rights, I am especially reminded every year on Father’s Day of the profound importance of fatherhood—not only for individual families but for the health and future of our entire society.
Over the decades, the role of fathers has evolved dramatically. Fathers are more involved than ever before, taking on responsibilities that go far beyond the traditional breadwinner stereotype.
They are caregivers, teachers, mentors, and emotional anchors. They are present at school events, help with homework, and provide the steady hand and support that children need to thrive.
Yet, despite these positive changes, many fathers still face significant challenges. Outdated stereotypes and systemic biases continue to influence how fathers are perceived—and how they are treated. Too often, fathers are seen only as secondary parents or worse, as obstacles rather than being recognized as the essential figures in their children’s lives that they are.
Throughout my career, I have witnessed fathers enduring the heartbreak of fighting for the right to be present in their children’s lives. I have seen the emotional toll that separation, divorce, and custody battles can take—not only on the fathers themselves but also, most importantly, on their children.
That is why I have dedicated my life to fighting for fathers’ rights and working to reform family law. I am proud that my law firm’s President, Jeffery M. Leving, co-authored the Illinois Joint Custody Law, which recognizes the importance of both parents in a child’s life.
But our work is far from over. Every day, fathers across the country face uphill battles to remain involved in their children’s lives. These struggles are not just legal—each one is deeply personal and emotional. The struggles require resilience, determination, and, above all, love.
Research consistently shows that children with involved fathers are more likely to succeed academically, develop healthy relationships, and avoid risky behaviors. Father engagement reduces behavioral problems in boys, decreases delinquency, and lessens economic disadvantage in low-income families. A father’s positive presence can also protect daughters and reduce a daughter’s vulnerability to rape and sexual abuse.
On this Father’s Day, it’s important to acknowledge not only the fathers who are present but also those who are fighting to be present. These men face obstacles that are often invisible to the outside world, yet their commitment must never waver. They are the unsung heroes who persevere for the sake of their children.
Let us commit to uplifting fathers in every way possible. Let us challenge stereotypes, advocate for fair laws, and create a culture that values and supports the role of fathers. We all have a part to play in ensuring that every child has the opportunity to know and be loved by their father.
To all the fathers reading this: your dedication and patience are making a difference. You are shaping the next generation, one day at a time. Don’t give up hope and don’t give up fighting for your children. Your presence matters more than you may ever realize.
Fatherhood is a journey filled with challenges and triumphs, setbacks and victories. It is a role that demands strength, vulnerability, and unwavering commitment. This Father’s Day, let us honor all fathers who are with their children, those who are apart from their children, and those who are fighting to be with their children. Your sacrifices and your love are the foundation upon which our families and communities are built and thrive.
Attorney Arthur S. Kallow has dedicated his career to safeguarding children and reuniting them with their fathers. Follow him at the Law Offices of Jeffery M. Leving, Ltd. at dadsrights.com for more articles like these.
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